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The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands - CNN
https://apple.news/AO9JydUJNTGmVGevgnO6t6g Something for the cucks |
Dragonblade01 posted...
I mean, as interesting as some of the reasoning in that article is; at the end of the day, they're cheating on their husbands. Yea but da patriarchy |
Not long after, another told me that while she'd never had sex with another man, she'd had so many emotional affairs and inappropriate email correspondences over the years that she'd had to buy a separate hard drive to store them all. Something about emotionally cheating on someone just sounds funny. "The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." I don't think cheating on someone suddenly makes you less of a bitch. These women were turning to infidelity not as a way to explode a marriage, but as a way to stay in it. Or you know, just break up. If you have to cheat in order to keep a relationship working, it's not a very good relationship. |
This doesn't surprise me in the slightest.
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courier_nv posted...
why is red pill so bad again? Because a blanket hate towards woman due to bitterness of unable to get a date is a terrible mindset. |
OpheliaAdenade posted...
Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back. Two wrongs don't make a right. |
Tmaster148 posted...
courier_nv posted...why is red pill so bad again? |
Newhopes posted...
OpheliaAdenade posted...Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back. bs |
OpheliaAdenade posted...
Newhopes posted...OpheliaAdenade posted...Guys still cheat more. :v Girls are just paying them back. Not really. Women cheat more simply because they have far, far more opportunities to cheat than your average man. Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol. The types of men that could wouldn't be interested in marriage or even relationships really.
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Romulox28 posted...
I hear indian men are the new bulls >this is what indians actually believe |
Everyone cheats on everyone these days. Who cares anymore. Just don't get married. Just fuck a lot of girls until your penis loses sensitivity and you don't care about fucking anymore. From there, life is all about football, beer, and video games. And pizza. It's a good life, really.
God bless you
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OpheliaAdenade posted...
bs It's completely true. https://hellobeautiful.com/2670954/study-shows-women-cheat-more-than-men/ https://www.elitedaily.com/women/are-women-likely-to-cheat/1057815 http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html http://www.yourtango.com/201172881/women-more-likely-cheat-men-heres-why |
AcFan87 posted...
voldothegr8 posted...I'm guessing the reasoning is, if it is a sexual affair, that they are not getting what they want from their husband sexually, so seek it out from some man that can, but still want the safety that their husband provides in other aspects, like finance or emotional support.So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct? Treat your wife like you did when you dated or were newlyweds and if this happens, you can be sure that it wasn't you. It might not make it easier to take, but if you take care of your wife's needs she won't seek them out somewhere else unless she is just a bad person.
I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski
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FrisbeeDude posted...
Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol. This is true though. Women can get laid a hell of a lot easier than men can. |
Tadamoto22 posted...
OpheliaAdenade posted...bs Daaaam |
Tadamoto22 posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol. Newsflash: there's a huge middle between "chads" and "foreveralones" and it's filled with men who do just fine with women. Don't try and justify your own failures by trying to attribute them to the general population
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you know, I wanted to give the article and the reasoning they give a chance
so I read it all, and now I don't want to get married |
Interesting. I skimmed through it because its pretty much the story about "my needs and my wants." Theres no way to find what works for these respective marriages. No specific advice to save it. However if you treat the marriage like your life depended on it then maybe theres this general advice you can apply.
Relationships take time and effort. Couples should remind each other of that and make it work. Anything of value is worth doing yet these marriages simply dont make the time and effort For each other. So, the spouse looks towards someone else to give them that attention. have people become so busy that their marriage takes a back seat? Marriage priority is low in some cases. Spouses often feel one sided in the relationship and its that neglect that devalues them as a couple. They lived with each other for years yet they feel like strangers at times. Its torment to feel and not be able to tell the one you love, or like enough to build a life around as that article put it. Simply these couples expect their intimacy to carry the marriage and quite frankly, thats never enough. We all arent mind readers. We need to communicate with words and actually listen attentively to one another to come to a mutual understanding. It seems the infidelity is one way. I wonder if this was the result of a mutual understanding or just a spouse going maverick. most of us will act on impulse Given the right situations. Spouses excuse and bury their feelings at times. they keep doing that and they become burdened with it. That one day of impulse becomes so great that the excuses stop and that spouse just wants to feel desired again.
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Ppl don’t want to work on marriage
We are lazy |
I wont feel sorry for those women if their husbands have a violent reaction when they find out.
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idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated
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I think we treat the idea of marriage to much like we treat the idea of college. It's something that you must do, regardless of whether its appropriate for you or not. And because you have to do it, you feel trapped. But because each person is different, they struggle in their own particular areas and have to find their own unique ways of dealing with it. Which means there's no universal patch to fix the issue for everyone having difficulties.
People have to really want to get married and be willing to work at it. They have to prepare for it and recognize that it isn't some happily ever after scenario like we're told it is. If you want to diminish these sorts of scenarios from being commonplace, you can't make marriage a goal that people feel obligated to achieve in order to be "proper members of society." But again, if you cheat on your significant other, that's a mistake on your part. It doesn't matter if the system encourages it or not.
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ThyCorndog posted...
idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated It's not really a fix. It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want. I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied. |
Esrac posted...
ThyCorndog posted...idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated This is another issue that needs to get brought up more. It's a two-pronged issue. Going to an office, doing the same menial tasks day in and day out, going home for the latter part of the day, and having all or most of your social interactions revolve around those two places isn't exactly an ideal situation for most guys (or really anyone, for that matter).
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ThyCorndog posted...
idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastatedI would say this is a step in the right direction to finding out their (or anyone's) motivations for such actions. I know in the years I've been married there has been some low points where I started to think things. So I just was up front and confronted my wife and asked her and told her my concerns and why. And she laid them to rest enough that I was confident I got the truth and was just being human. Talking to your spouse about your concerns, needs, feelings, etc is important to circumventing something like infidelity happening in your marriage/relationship.
I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski
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Dragonblade01 posted...
Esrac posted...ThyCorndog posted...idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated I mean, lately, we hear a lot about the "invisible, emotional labor" that women do and, in this case, how it makes them resent their husbands and they use it as an excuse to cheat. But how often do we ask men about what "invisible labor" they do and how it makes them feel about their wives and their marriages? No one gives a shit about that. Hell, I'm griping about it right now in this post and I recognize that it's a disparity in our collective concern as a society about the issues men and women face, but even I can't be bothered to care if Joe Blow is feeling dissatisfied with his marriage. |
voldothegr8 posted...
So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct? |
That's something we've always had a problem with when it comes to understanding gender disparity. Even if men as a whole may be considered the "privileged gender," that tells us nothing about the struggle of any individual man in society. More importantly, it fails to recognize that even the gender in the dominate role still requires the individuals to bear all the responsibilities of that role. And those responsibilities can be extremely stressful and not especially satisfying.
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Dragonblade01 posted...
That's something we've always had a problem with when it comes to understanding gender disparity. Even if men as a whole may be considered the "privileged gender," that tells us nothing about the struggle of any individual man in society. More importantly, it fails to recognize that even the gender in the dominate role still requires the individuals to bear all the responsibilities of that role. And those responsibilities can be extremely stressful and not especially satisfying. True |
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Tadamoto22 posted...FrisbeeDude posted...
Most men won't cheat because they're lucky if they can even get sex from one woman, lol.
LMAO woooooowww
This is true though. Women can get laid a hell of a lot easier than men can.
Men are only as faithful as their options. But, men are vilified for cheating and women are determined to be justified.
Like if a wife won't Fuck her husband and he cheats, he's an asshole. Reverse that and she is just getting what he needs.Jake Peralta: World's Grossest Pervertvoldothegr8 posted...So...they cheat to save the marriage? Am I reading this article correct?
You'd be shocked at what kind of effects it can have.
A few years ago, I was messing around with a girl who had a boyfriend in the Army. Afterwards, she said she loved her boyfriend more.
The psychology behind it is that many people want to be closer with their significant other, but isn't getting what they need. When they cheat, they felt like they're getting their needs fulfilled, not because they want to be with another man/woman.Sig under construction!Tadamoto22 posted...OpheliaAdenade posted...
bs
It's completely true.
https://hellobeautiful.com/2670954/study-shows-women-cheat-more-than-men/
https://www.elitedaily.com/women/are-women-likely-to-cheat/1057815
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html
http://www.yourtango.com/201172881/women-more-likely-cheat-men-heres-why
In what universe is 15 larger than 21? Are you even capable of reading articles, or do you just parrot what the erroneous headline says?the percentage of wives having affairs rose to 14.7 percent in 2010, while the number of men admitting to extramarital affairs held constant at 21 percent.
Guys still either cheat or admit to cheating more.
Conversely, the 40% rise the OP is discussing is just women admitting to it. They may've always been sleeping around because the husbands are being complacent, or cheating as well, or whatever. It's still deplorable behavoir for a woman to cheat on her husband, but guys are still 50% more likely to cheat so let's stop with the "women cheat more / are two timing whores / are the privileged gender" bullshit.Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense
Just know, to me, you're better late than never again.Esrac posted...ThyCorndog posted...
idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated
It's not really a fix.
It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want.
I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied.
this is because society doesnt care about menAll this shit actually benefits the top tier of men that women want to have sex with. And those guys will turn around and use the women, not take care of them, and basically everyone's unhappy except the dude fucking all the girls. And that dudes probably unhappy because he doesn't trust women either. Then the women get older and fatter and life doesn't go how they expected, so they take it out on their kids.
Or something. Yay sexual revolution, woo-hoo. That was a fuckin mistake. Cheap thrills for long term suffering.Keith_Valentine posted...The whole nature of relationships is changing in a surprising way.
The truth is actually more horrible than people think.
The truth that monogamy being seen as a default has led to heartbreak and dysfunction?"Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon."
-DevsBroFLUFFYGERM posted...Esrac posted...
ThyCorndog posted...
idk if I had a wife and she cheated on me to fix a problem instead of talking to me about it, I'd be pretty devastated
It's not really a fix.
It's those women being increasingly selfish and thinking they should get everything they want.
I can assure you those husbands aren't getting everything they want, but we don't typically get to hear their side of it. We generally don't care if the men in relationships aren't feeling totally satisfied.
this is because society doesnt care about men
Well, society cares about what men can do. Which may be why it could be argued that men's personal successes are more socially visible than women's. Society doesn't care about men's problems in any capacity that can muster the motivation for societal change the way we do about women's problems.marthsheretoo posted...Keith_Valentine posted...
The whole nature of relationships is changing in a surprising way.
The truth is actually more horrible than people think.
The truth that monogamy being seen as a default has led to heartbreak and dysfunction?
The truth that 80% of people loyal despite the insane desire to have sex with other people?"What is any ocean but a multitude of droplets"You guys have it all wrong.
Everybody is a piece of shit. Not just one gender. It doesn't matter which is more OFTEN a backstabber. All that matters is that you make sure it doesn't catch you off guard, and if it does, to attempt emotionally blocking yourself from getting hurt by it.PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7Sounds like a load of shit but of course it does. “I’m doing this to save our marriage!” Bull fuckin shit, as someone said in another topic....
RE_expert44 posted...It's easier to blame others for your problems than take responsibility
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FLUFFYGERM posted...this is because society doesnt care about men
This is 100% true. Men get treated the way white people do and it’s a shame.Monogamy and polyamory are both natural routes of intimate human relationships. Both have been performed for centuries.
The concept of monogamy did not begin when the idea of marriage did. Earlier ancestors of humanity were already practicing monogamous relationships for multiple reasons. Just as some other ancestors preferred and facilitated polyamory instead. Different communities practiced different values due to local norms.Bite me like one of your French rolls.
http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gifmarthsheretoo posted...Keith_Valentine posted...
The whole nature of relationships is changing in a surprising way.
The truth is actually more horrible than people think.
The truth that monogamy being seen as a default has led to heartbreak and dysfunction?
Yes, on a large scale. And the way unsatisfield women will wear down the unlucky beta men who love them, the ripple effects of alpha dick, pornograpic expectations in sex destroying intimacy for couples, women traumatizing nice men and rewarding assholes. Huge majority of population horribly confused and wary of the opposite sex. Fucking awful stuff. Some good but overall , amazingly bad trends , and getting worse.Is it cheating if the relationship is open?
Either way, I get the emotional cheating part of it. That can be more damaging long term than a one night stand, aside from potential pregnancy or STDs. If your spouse starts loving someone else in place of you, you end up losing a lot of what makes a lasting relationship work. I mean, an open relationship simply allows the people to get their sexual energy out on another so that it can break the monotony or the routine.If you're not looking for any honest discussion, agreement, meeting halfway or middle ground, don't bother arguing with me. Selfish narcissists need not apply.i love articles like this and how a big operation like cnn publishes this because it shows the continuing effort of the media and government trying to get men and women to not trust each other but still have sex with eachother and just have broken relationships and no love.gatorsPENSbucs posted...Sounds like a load of shit but of course it does. “I’m doing this to save our marriage!” Bull fuckin shit, as someone said in another topic....
RE_expert44 posted...It's easier to blame others for your problems than take responsibility
Absolutely.Surely, one might think, a woman who would do such a thing must be acting out of a desire to escape a miserable marriage. And yet it turns out, this isn't always the case: Many of the women Walker interviewed were in marriages that were functional. Like the women I knew who cheated, many of the interviewees said they liked their husbands well enough. They had property together. They had friendships together. They had children that they were working together to raise.
But at the same time, they found married life incredibly dull and constraining and resented the fact that as women, they felt they consistently did a disproportionate amount of the invisible labor that went into maintaining their lifestyle.
One woman in Walker's book told her, "The inequality of it all is such an annoying factor that I am usually in a bad mood when my spouse is in my presence," and another said that while her husband was a competent adult in the world, at home he felt like "another child to clean up after."
Many of the friends I spoke to expressed similar feelings. "I shop and cook, my husband does dishes and empties the trash," one told me. "We each do our own laundry. But I've always been in charge of the 'calendar,' and what I didn't realize until recently is that in some way I'm in charge of managing many of our relationships.
These people speak from a position of privilege, they have an emotional support network in the form of friendships that is shared by their husbands, along with property and offspring. But apparently, it's not enough to have all these things. The unequal division of labor, boredom, and a vague, undefined sense of oppression/neglect. These are all excuses to make having an affair justified.My Mario Maker Levels
https://supermariomakerbookmark.nintendo.net/profile/untrustful?type=posted"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch."
Yeah, I have a hobby too. Does wonders for my mind. Doesn't involve lies and betrayal. Whatever. Really shows your value when the only hobby you can come up with involves getting plowed.clearaflagrantj posted...Marriage is like only eating one meal for the rest of your life. Doesn't matter what it is, you will get sick of it.
Nah, maybe for people who are just naturally miserable or people picking the wrong mate.
I’ve had relations with the wife an insane amount of times and I’m nowhere close to getting sick of it.StarsOfCCTV posted...marthsheretoo posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
The whole nature of relationships is changing in a surprising way.
The truth is actually more horrible than people think.
The truth that monogamy being seen as a default has led to heartbreak and dysfunction?
The truth that 80% of people loyal despite the insane desire to have sex with other people?
gatorsPENSbucs posted...clearaflagrantj posted...
I see there's some sensible posts here. But damn this board is bitter about monogamy, marriage and sex. I don't judge how other people live but monogomy and marriage work for me and many people I know. I've know 3 divorces/step children in my life. So no it doesn't work all the time. If polygamy work for you and your partners, great. Nothing is infinitely going to work for every human. But that does not mean said thing is bad because it doesn't. Marriage and monogomy only work as well as the two people invested in it want it to work. Don't get married out of obligation. Do it because that's the only person on earth you want to be with till death do you part.Marriage is like only eating one meal for the rest of your life. Doesn't matter what it is, you will get sick of it.
Nah, maybe for people who are just naturally miserable or people picking the wrong mate.
I’ve had relations with the wife an insane amount of times and I’m nowhere close to getting sick of it.I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowskicourier_nv posted...Awesome posted...
these people are just evil
red pill makes so much sense
No, it doesn't lmaoDidn't click the link.
Is this another "women cheat for good reasons" article?http://i.imgur.com/8pzUM.gif http://i.imgur.com/Oh1iujg.gif
The only bad part about flying is having to come back down to the f***in' world ~RatI think these articles are fascinating because I like to see how people rationalize their behavior in order to preserve their self-image as not being an immature and selfish person. Pushing that guilt into a little box and tucking it away.You gotta fly like an eagle and not.b... be like a turkeyThe Great Muta 22 posted...courier_nv posted...
Awesome posted...
these people are just evil
red pill makes so much sense
No, it doesn't lmaoLordRazziel posted...Didn't click the link.
Is this another "women cheat for good reasons" article?
Of course it is, women don’t cheat for bad reasons. It’s all the guys fault.gatorsPENSbucs posted...LordRazziel posted...
Didn't click the link.
Is this another "women cheat for good reasons" article?
Of course it is, women don’t cheat for bad reasons. It’s all the guys fault.
actually no, fake news, its not that at all.If you’re an otherwise decent human being that fucks up and cheats, the memory of that should be extremely painful. If you think that sleeping around helps your marriage, you have no morals and are a dirtbag."Socialism in general has a record of failure so blatant that only an intellectual could ignore or evade it." -Thomas SowellEnragedSlith posted...I think these articles are fascinating because I like to see how people rationalize their behavior in order to preserve their self-image as not being an immature and selfish person. Pushing that guilt into a little box and tucking it away.
In this case, the little box is the mental image of their husbands.My Mario Maker Levels
https://supermariomakerbookmark.nintendo.net/profile/untrustful?type=postedNOM posted...Most women are pieces of shit
you seem upsetAlmost before I'd finished processing this, another friend told me she was 100 percent faithful to her husband, except when she was out of town for work each month.
lol what a thing to say.
I don't think comparing stats between genders really means much one way or the other. These are just the stats for people that admit it publicly. Both men and women cheat. The reasons they do may be are different but they both do it.Kind Regards,
DarmikPeople make up whatever shit they need to to justify their own actions, this isn't new.- Boards
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I was thinking it's probably the same for men, but the article says the rate of men cheating has stayed constant.
Either way, it takes two to tango, and the shift from sex as something done between individuals who love each other to an act of pure pleasure has been socially and emotionally damaging, and the blame is on both sexes. The institution of marriage is now also basically meaningless, having become, essentially, "economic privileges for long-term couples". It seems pretty inevitable that our Christian roots will cease to have any meaning (for better or worse), and at that point, I wouldn't be surprised if there'd be talks about axing marriage as a legal thing altogether.I live in a big house and it's handy to have a pair of running shoes so that it doesn't take me forever to get from one area of the house to another.this topic has triggered some angry doodsSinroth posted...I was thinking it's probably the same for men, but the article says the rate of men cheating has stayed constant.
The stat is for people admitting affairs. So it could simply mean that more women admit it now than they used to. Doesn't change the rest of your post though.Kind Regards,
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